Often it happens, we meet a girl, after communicating with her we understand - that it is our other half. Rush toward the feelings in the pool with his head. Losing touch with reality. Live only in the hope that in one moment, she will be our spouse and share our fate, as well as all prepared for her joys and sorrows.
After several months of waiting a girl is trying to get a visa and then everybody discovers that she has a lot of debts, her apartment is bought on credit; it must be paid, because she cannot leave a country when she did not pay her debts. What can you do in this case, how should you act in this situation?
If a man is much older than his bride, he actually says that he would like to buy a young wife, to offer her a better fate in his country, so he is not confused and does not frighten from this information. This type of men even will offer to help their future mother-in law at the request of their wives, for example, they can easily cover all their debts, but that does not mean that they will never blame their wives that for helping with their financial debts.
But there are some men who are younger, middle class, who are trying to find their happiness abroad and who openly declare that besides themselves, their pure love, they do not offer anything else. Therefore, such men would be very difficult to make the right decision. First of all, such a man should ask his girlfriend about her income, he should do it gently and does not avoid these conversations, because in the future they have to share a home, as well as the total household budget. Do not be afraid also to be interested in how your future bride spends her leisure time, how often she goes shopping. Read the statistics, interest of the economic situation of the country of your bride. Try in person to talk to her friends, ask about her, what she loves, you can tell them that you want to prepare a surprise or a gift. In any case, if you are consciously willing to spend all the rest your life with this person, you will find different solutions to this problem: for example, a loving man will be able to take a loan and pay her credit because she decided to relocate to another country and live with him, or maybe she should abandon the property which she bought in a short time. It all depends on the situation and the people. If people truly love and are ready to create a happy family unit - they will find the right solution to the problem.